Anxious

Anxious. Luciana DeLuca. 2024. 32 pages. [Source: ARC provided by the publisher via NetGalley in exchange for an honest review.] A lot on the short side and not what I was expecting considering the usual style of children’s books. There wasn’t a story just a straight diagnosis … almost a checklist of anxiety symptoms presented with pretty pictures. Relatable but not something I’d want to give to a child.

You Are Ketchup

You Are Ketchup: And Other Fly Music Industry Tales. Kokayi. 2022. Backbeat Books. 212 pages. [Source: Public library.] As a longtime DMV* resident and fan of countless musicians originating here, I’m not a stranger to seeing Kokayi’s name, well, everywhere. I wasn’t, however, familiar with the full scope of his career, and when the opportunity came to read his new release, You Are Ketchup, I jumped at the chance.  Y.A.K. is part memoir-part advice manual for up-and-coming musicians/artists, but is filled with career, life, and love lessons for anyone who picks it up.  Using the metaphor of ketchup as a commodity, Kokayi sets artists up for critical thought and planning about their talent, marketability, aspirations, and expectations — nearly every aspect of their career .  He’s not preachy or even “one size fits all,” in his approach, and he doesn’t hold any cards.  The game is the game, and the way he presents his own experiences allows for direct advice to help artists move through their career with intentionality so they can actually enjoy one with longevity and viability. Kokayi is a brilliant storyteller and deftly balances painful memories and honest truths with just enough humor to take the edge…

Waiting on Mr. Sloth

Waiting on Mr. Sloth. Katy Hudson. 2023. Capstone. 32 pages. [Source: ARC provided by the publisher via NetGalley in exchange for an honest review.] I don’t often review children’s books anymore, but I can’t turn down anything sloth related. I was in for such a treat with Waiting on Mr. Sloth and am sure the little in your life will love (and relate) to this story. All Sasha wants to do is go swimming with Mr. Sloth. But, being a sloth, he’s so slow and is keeping her from enjoying the only thing she wants to do. It’s not just Mr. Sloth that keeps Sasha from her swim — the two encounter obstacles that exist solely to derail an otherwise fun day in the water. I love this book’s choice of a sloth as Sasha’s foil. He’s nothing if not true to his nature — he’s not rushing anything. Sasha’s frustration, however, leads to a great teachable moment about patience, mindfulness, and just going with the flow. It’s perfectly worded for young readers and is presented in a way that makes the lesson easily digested and understood. As a treat, the book also provides a list of easy and accessible…

Come as You Are
Education , Health & Wellness , Non-fiction / November 27, 2021

Come as You Are. Emily Nagoski. 2015. Simon & Schuster. 416 pages. [Source: Personal copy.] Pardon me while I pick up a few extra copies of this for my exes and one for my next. All jokes aside, Come as You Are is a thought-provoking, reflection-inducing read that’s just as eye-opening as it is affirming. It starts by acknowledging the shame that many women may carry due to their perceptions of their body, sexuality, and relationships, most of which are byproducts of a society that does not and has never prioritized womens’ sexual autonomy. The result is a text that always centers womens’ health and wellness and seeks to normalize differences among them. Topics range from the biological similarities of male and female reproductive organs, the importance of context’s impact on sex, the wide range of sexual responses, and how women can use an individualized approach to move toward a sexual life that is healthy and gratifying. One of the most important points of this book is reiterated frequently – women are different. Their bodies and different — and normal. How they view sex is different — and normal. Their sexuality is different — and normal. By starting with baseline,…